Phoebe, Clinical Psychologist, Author-dating & relationships on Instagram: "I don’t think we talk enough about how healthy love can still feel hard. Because when someone actually shows up — consistently, calmly, and with care- it can still trigger the part of you that’s scared of being rejected or “too much.” But the difference is they don’t make you question your worth. They make space for you. They listen. They repair. Green flags that show you’re building something real: * They value vulnerab